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(https://bit.ly/445ZLep)\nHow to Date Your Partner Forever (https://bit.ly/4lgI7uM)\nSlender Young And Pretty Girls (https://bit.ly/4lgI81O)\nDo I Only Date Pretty Women? (https://bit.ly/3FMle29)\nLet’s Just Get Naked (https://bit.ly/4ltSRpR)\nSo… You Want to Date a Single Dad. (https://bit.ly/448hwtA)\n\nIf you lived in Manhattan in the mid to late 90s, you may recall an Upper West Side coffee shop called Drip. This was before there was a Starbucks on every corner, so this type of place was quite unique: you could linger over your coffee for hours, just like on Friends! (what's the font for sarcasm?)\n\nThere was an added draw: a free dating service. You'd fill out a questionnaire, they'd stick it in a book, and if someone perusing the book liked what they read about you, Drip would put you in touch (and you'd ostensibly give Drip even more business by having your first Drip date there). Unfortunately, there were no pics involved, so you had to decide if you wanted to meet someone based on their words alone -- which sounds so archaic now!\n\nThis guy requested a date with me, and something I read in his profile gave me pause: he wrote, "I'm as cute as a button -- a big, plush button". Being the eternal optimist that I am (or just a sucker for a good story), I still decided to meet him.\n\nAnd he was right -- he was a big, plush button. He was a large, round fella, quite a few pounds overweight. Not really my type. There was no second date, but the expression "a big plush button" has become part of my vernacular with my best friend D to this day.\n\nFast-forward to February 2010. Date #159. I knew from his pics that he had a few extra pounds, but he was still rather good-looking and seemed exceptionally interesting: had traveled all over the world, had a job that he loved, and other positive stuff.\n\nWe hit it off. Drinks led to dinner, which led to kisses in the street, which led to plans for this weekend even before the date was over. He thinks I'm smart and gorgeous, and tells me so. His email to confirm our weekend date was appropriately enthusiastic.\n\nHe's not exactly a "big plush button" -- but yes, he does have a little extra around the middle, more than I'm used to. A bit like this guy, which is why I'm now blog-naming him Hoffman.\n\nI'm certainly no twig (and oy -- not doing well in the weight-loss department, but more on that later) -- but I'm trying to wrap my head around Mr Teddy Bear Man's girth. Um, maybe just get past date two first, and take it from there? Thanks for the advice, self.\n\n\n\nSince I last wrote, I've had two more dates with Einstein. I can't figure him out: he's fun and funny one minute, and a bit strange and pedantic the next. On our second date, we wound up at his place for a bit of kissing and more drinking. He wanted me to stay over (note: we were fully clothed the whole time) -- it just felt too soon. I left his place at 2:50 am, a bit tipsy and tired.\n\nIt was only when I was already in the taxi on my way home that it occurred to me: he didn't walk me downstairs to said taxi, and he really should have. He did offer a half-hearted, "you'll be OK?", and my automatic response was simply to say yes. I decided that wasn't a deal-breaker, but a lesson to myself: ask for what you want, especially when it comes to personal safety at 2:50 am.\n\nDate #3 with Einstein: easy-flowing conversation over drinks, then a bite, then back to my place. More smooching, this time shirts were removed. I had to work early the next morning, so at about 11 pm, I started to mention that we really should start to wrap things up...\n\nYou would have thought I'd put a gun to the guy's head. He leapt up, quickly put his shirt on and within a minute was at the door, fiddling with the locks -- I half-joked about at least giving me a kiss goodnight. He did, but seconds later was out the door, with a terse "bye".\n\nI mentioned this to Best Friend D, and her feeling was: "when someone wants me to go, I'd be out the door quickly too!". But something about this just didn't feel right.\n\nOverall, something about HIM just didn't feel right, and this was magnified on my first date with Hoffman days later. THIS was a sweet, warm, not-strange-seeming guy. You know how meeting someone new can show you what was wrong with the last one? Yeah -- that.\n\n\nAnyone else have Drip date stories? 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(https://bit.ly/4lpyBFF)\nAre you looking for the finish line in love? (https://bit.ly/3YmbJwQ)\nLearn the One Rule for Love and Dating (https://bit.ly/43JKv6Z)\n\nJust a few days ago, I wrote:\n\nI recently stopped dating Martin because I felt it wasn't going anywhere, and I made a decision to actively seek a meaningful relationship. So why am I still dating Mr Easy, even though it doesn't feel like it has the makings of a great romance? Good question. It is easy, and we do have a good time. But is that enough? I think I need more time to figure it out.\n\nI came to the conclusion: fun and easy wasn't enough. Tonight, I ended it with Mr Easy. He was disappointed, but in the honest discussion that followed (we'd never talked about "us" before), he said he's not in a place for anything serious at the moment. And truthfully, while I enjoyed his company, I'm not sure I was feeling a future with him. We had a lovely hug goodbye (along with what seemed like one of our most passionate kisses ever), and that was that.\n\nI know I made the right decision, but I'm just in a funk right now. I'm really, really sick of dates that don't go anywhere. I had dates #130 and 131 this week -- I wasn't swept off my feet by either of them, but I'd consider a second date if I hear from them. Thankfully, neither was doing the Master Cleanse during the date. \nSource: https://ppam.erboressens.fr/formation/docreg/?AndAnotherOneSGoneAndAnother OneSGone END:VEVENT BEGIN:VEVENT UID:https://ppam.erboressens.fr/formation/docreg/?ItSSurprisingButItSNot URL:https://ppam.erboressens.fr/formation/docreg/?ItSSurprisingButItSNot DTSTAMP:20260316T220222Z DTSTART:20240413T220000Z DTEND:20240414T220000Z CREATED:20250414T152434Z DATE-MOD:20250414T152434Z SUMMARY:It's surprising, but it's not. NAME:It's surprising, but it's not. DESCRIPTION:You're Never Too Old For True Love! 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What could go wrong?\n\nWhich is why it's such a shock when that fabulous guy disappears. Even when you're used to dating in NY, and it happens all the time -- it's still a shock.\n\nFor a few days after the date, Mr Cool and I kept missing each other, leaving messages on each other's voicemails. I realized that medium of communication was proving difficult, so I last followed up with an email. Three days ago. That doesn't sound like a lot of time -- and check back with me in a week or so -- but I just have a feeling I'm not going to hear back from this guy. My gut usually tends to be spot on about these things.\n\nJust to make sure -- maybe he didn't get my email?, as deluded people the world over ask themselves -- I tried one last ditch effort, and texted him this morning. Nothing.\n\nSure, I'm bummed. I also realize that you know nothing about a person after one date, and more likely, you're just subscribing to some fantasy of what you want this person to be. Saying that, I've been in a funk about this guy the past few days... but today I was thinking about the blog, and realized that posting about this would be my way of getting this out of my system. I'm feeling better already.\n\nIs it some kind of karmic retribution that at the exact moment Mr Cool called for the last time, I was kissing another guy?\n\nI mentioned the Young'Un once before -- we'd been emailing and IMing for months, but always seemed to have conflicting schedules. In one very candid conversation, we even established that we probably wouldn't be a match -- he wants kids, I most likely don't -- but there still seemed to be an attraction there.\n\nEarlier this week, we were IMing, and it came up that we were both free that very evening. We met for a few glasses of wine. We kissed. We IMd the next day along the lines of, "that was fun, but we should just be friends". End of story. (he was date #141).\n\nThere's some early communication brewing with a few new J-guys, but no one I'm really excited about right now.\n\nOh -- pleasant surprise -- Smooch has been emailing from the foreign country where he's currently traveling for work, even including some pictures of his activities. Some flirtiness in the emails. Something to look forward to, his return in a few weeks. \nSource: https://ppam.erboressens.fr/formation/docreg/?ItSSurprisingButItSNot END:VEVENT BEGIN:VEVENT UID:https://ppam.erboressens.fr/formation/docreg/?HowDoYouTellAGuyWhosAske dYouOnADate URL:https://ppam.erboressens.fr/formation/docreg/?HowDoYouTellAGuyWhosAske dYouOnADate DTSTAMP:20260316T220222Z DTSTART:20230415T220000Z DTEND:20230416T220000Z CREATED:20250416T151427Z DATE-MOD:20250416T151427Z SUMMARY:How Do You Tell a Guy Who’s Asked You On a Date That You’ll Go – But Only As Friends? NAME:How Do You Tell a Guy Who’s Asked You On a Date That You’ll Go – But Only As Friends? 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Will you help?\n\nThank you!\n\nEmma \nSource: https://ppam.erboressens.fr/formation/docreg/?HowDoYouTellAGuyWhosAskedYou OnADate END:VEVENT END:VCALENDAR